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What are the Best Stones for Love?

Updated: Mar 19



Energy of Love


The experience of love is one of the most profound feelings we have as human beings. The energy of love is woven into the fabric of our universe and helps bring us to places of peace, acceptance, joy, passion, and bliss. Crystals, gemstones, and metals have a significant place in helping us heal and have a more mindful experience of love in our lives.


Love can wear many masks and is often felt on an emotional level at the heart-center in the body. If you are seeking to open up to love more fully, heal from a past relationship, or get in touch with your inner passion then working with the crystals on this list are for you!




Love Stones


Every gemstone stone is UNIQUE, each one believed to hold a different healing power, type of energy, or presenting a different form of luck. Certain gemstones are thought to be love stones, gems which can help bring love into your life by either encouraging a more loving state of mind, improving current relationships, or luring those we desire into our arms.


There are several gems that are believed to be good for love, including rose quartz, rhodonite, moonstone, jade and lapis. Different gems are thought to hold different love powers and be better used in different situations.


But let's be realistic, no gemstone has the power to mysteriously make someone fall in love with you, the powers and influences of stones are far more subtle and delicate. Some believe that gems emit energy and that choosing the correct gem, or using the appropriate combination of precious stones can help you to channel that energy and develop the right state of mind with which to find love.





And witch Stones Have this Power?


Identifying Stones for Love: Look to the Color

The color family of a stone often helps us understand its energetic imprint and purpose in a healing context. Crystals and gemstones that are associated with the heart-chakra are frequently also associated with love, self-love, and acceptance and tend to pink or green in color with a gentle vibration. Crystals for passion and intimacy are often associated with the sacral and root chakras frequently being deeper in color with a potent energy vibration.



The Best Stones for Increasing Love in Your Life


ROSE QURTZ - Self Love

Developing a healthy relationship to self can be a life long process. Learning to love ourselves for who we are without shame or regret is something many of us are challenged by. Rose Quartz is one of the best crystals for helping ease these feelings. This stone is soft and carries an extremely gentle vibration. It goes easy on us so we can remember to go easy on ourselves while embarking on the journey to self-love and wholeness.







RHODONITE - Compassion & Forgiveness

Rhodonite is a very potent stone for love. It carries a vibration of compassion and forgiveness. If we are having trouble getting

over a past relationship or difficult time moving on this stone can help. Rhodonite helps us be patient with ourselves, feel a deeper sense of empathy, and widens our heart-center vibration.





BLACK RHODONITE - Unselfish Self-love & Forgiveness

Black Rhodonite is also a stone of compassion, an emotional balancer that clears away emotional wounds and scars from the past, and that nurtures love. It stimulates, clears and activates the heart. Rhodonite aids in cases of emotional self-destruction, codependency and abuse. It encourages unselfish self-love and forgiveness.






PINK TOURMALINE - Healing Broken Heart

Tourmaline, both green and pink, can have amazing effects on helping us heal from a broken heart. It softens the energy around our heart-center and opens us up to being able to love again. It can invite new love and relationship possibilities into your life. Tourmaline helps us get in touch with our vulnerability while also helping us feel secure in the process.






MOONSTONE - Love & Affection

Moonstone holds protective energy and is balancing for the emotions. It is known to & love and affection.

Moonstone will bring you luck in your romantic relationship whenever you opt for having it. The best thing you can do is have a mala necklace or bracelet with this beautiful stone. You should wear it as frequently as they can.






LAPIS LAZULI - Love & Light

Lapis Lazuli bonds friendships and relationships with love and compassion. It can help you dissolve passive-aggressive behavior patterns and state your own needs without making others feel bad or guilty. Lapis Lazuli has protective qualities, and being near to the stone all the time can help you to recognize untruths from others.





KUNZITE - Heals Emotions & Creates Loving Relationships

Kunzite is a lovely heart-based crystal that encourages the energy of love to fill your life. Their vibration helps you to heal emotional problems as you release negative feelings.

They aid you to more easily create loving relationships as your life fills with love on all levels.





PEARLS & MOONSTONE - “The pearl is the queen of gems and the gem of queens.” – Grace Kelly

One of the most romantic gifts, pearls have a classic and beautiful quality that women for generations have loved to wear. The Hindus believe that pearls can reduce your karma and make your relationships strong. Marriages and relationships begin to improve and people tend to lead a more fulfilled life.


Another interesting pearl symbolism tidbit that some believe is that when God banished Adam & Eve from the Garden of Eden, they wept, and their tears turned into pearls. It is also believed that the tears of Eve turned out to be white pearls, while Adam’s tears turned into black pearls.



PINK TOURMALINE - Healing Broken Heart

Tourmaline, both green and pink, can have amazing effects on helping us heal from a broken heart. It softens the energy around our heart-center and opens us up to being able to love again. It can invite new love and relationship possibilities into your life. Tourmaline helps us get in touch with our vulnerability while also helping us feel secure in the process.



How to Use Your Stones for Love

Now that you have a list of gemstones that can help deepen your experiences of love and


relating, how should you use them? Here are some suggestions!

  • Carry them with you in your purse or pocket

  • Sleep with the stones under your pillow or next to your bed

  • Meditate while holding the stones or with mala beads repeating a love mantra

  • Use your stones in ritual


Wear them as jewelry

Combining the energy of several stones is also a great way to get the most out of the healing properties!


Which gemstones do you associate with love?💗


NAMASTE 🙏

With Lots of Love, Your Hana




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